I don't think shoving it in their faces will help.

Talking to me is a pleasure. But it's not a privlege. Treating it as such would just make me seem snobbish, wouldn't it?

I'm obviously desirable. That much is certain. However, whether I'm desirable to anyone who sees me who doesn't already have a boyfriend is yet to be determined. Christy tells me I'm good looking, but she has to say that, she's my friend. Besides, her opinion doesn't help much, because she can't do anything to act on it.

What would be really nice is someone who knows me, in real life, who is my age, who isn't taken, and who isn't required to say nice things about me, would just come up to me one day and tell me I'm good looking. It happened once before (the word at the time was "sexy") but not since. It would help my self-esteem a lot, and it might do something for me.

Unfortunately, that hasn't happened yet. And desirable as I may be, I must be utterly unapproachable, cause no one comes up and tells me things like that.

Ah well. Such is life.